About The Song
“You Were Mine” is a song recorded by American country music group Dixie Chicks. Released in December 1998 as the fourth single from the album Wide Open Spaces, the song spent two weeks atop the U.S. Country singles chart in March 1999; that same month, it reached #34 on the Billboard Hot 100 and topped Canada’s country music chart for a week.
The song was written in 1995 by two of the founders of the original Dixie Chicks band, the Erwin sisters (now known as Martie Maguire and Emily Strayer), who were accustomed to writing music and performing. Strayer wrote most of the song, and Maguire supplied the bridge. It is a very autobiographical song, about the breakup of the sisters’ parents and their subsequent divorce. In one interview, when asked about it, Emily said that their parents generally “sweep it under the rug”, saying, “They know it’s about them, but [whispers] we never talk about it. [laughs] They don’t want to bring it up because they’re still weird around each other. My dad doesn’t want to think it’s about him, because it doesn’t make him look very good, and my mom thinks she’s moved on.”
“You Were Mine” played a key role in bringing the Dixie Chicks from near-total obscurity to massive commercial success. Based on a recommendation from session musician and producer Lloyd Maines, in the summer of 1995 the Erwin sisters invited Maines’ daughter Natalie to return to her home in Lubbock, Texas to sing the lead vocal on a demo recording of the song, rather than using the Chicks’ then-actual lead vocalist Laura Lynch to sing the part. At the time, the sisters told the other supporting musicians that this was only because Lynch was unavailable due to being out of town on a personal matter. In reality, the recording both convinced Natalie Maines that she would be comfortable singing a more pop and country rock-oriented format of country material (as opposed to their past purer bluegrass focus) and simultaneously confirmed both sisters’ suspicions that Maines’ powerful versatile voice could complement their instrumental prowess, leading them to replace Lynch with Maines.
When recording for the first-Maines-era album Wide Open Spaces began, “You Were Mine” was the only song the band was certain would be included. The recording has a solid country music sound. From the start, until the last strains of the song, Maguire’s violin draws out a hushed, somewhat sorrowful tune. A dose of Lloyd Maines’ steel guitar in the background – which also helped establish the record’s traditional country categorization – and the mixture of Maines’ vocals with the sisters’ harmony set a tone of loss and regret.
“You Were Mine” was performed during the group’s 2000 Fly Tour, where Rolling Stone called Maines’ “powerhouse, nail-it-to-the-wall perfect delivery of [the] achingly beautiful weeper” one of the highlights of the show, but was not performed again until the Long Time Gone Tour in 2013.
“You Were Mine” debuted at number 69 on the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Singles & Tracks for the week of December 12, 1998.
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Lyrics
I can’t find a reason to let go
Even though you’ve found a new love
And she’s what your dreams are made of
I can find a reason to hang on
What went wrong can be forgiven
Without you, it ain’t worth livin’ alone
Sometimes I wake up crying at night
And sometimes I scream out your name
What right does she have to take you away
When for so long, you were mine?
I took out all the pictures of our wedding day
It was a time of love and laughter
Happy ever after
But even those old pictures have begun to fade
Please tell me she’s not real
And that you’re really coming home to stay
Sometimes I wake up crying at night
And sometimes I scream out your name
What right does she have to take your heart away
When for so long, you were mine?
I can give you two good reasons
To show you love’s not blind
He’s two and she’s four, and you know they adore you
So how can I tell them you’ve changed your mind?
Sometimes I wake up crying at night
And sometimes I scream out your name
What right does she have to take your heart away
When for so long, you were mine?
I remember when you were mine