About The Song
“Don’t Come Home A-Drinkin’ (With Lovin’ on Your Mind)” is a country music song, made famous by singer Loretta Lynn in early 1967. The song was Lynn’s first number-one country hit. It is one of her best known songs and was included in all of her live shows. It was only the seventh solo female vocalist record to hit that position up to that time (the others being by Goldie Hill, Connie Smith, and two each by Kitty Wells and Patsy Cline) as well as the first written by the woman herself (the song being co-written by Lynn and her sister Peggy Sue). The background vocalists on the recording are the Jordanaires.
One of Loretta Lynn’s best-known compositions, “Don’t Come Home A-Drinkin” is about an angry wife who is fed up with her husband coming home late every night very drunk and wanting to have sex. The song was based on Lynn’s personal life; her husband is known to have been a heavy drinker. The song was the first of many controversial songs sung by Lynn, which also included 1972’s “Rated X” and 1975’s “The Pill”. The song was considered very controversial for the time, but was ultimately quite popular. An album of the same name was released following the song’s success, which also rose to the top of the charts.
Released in late 1966, “Don’t Come Home A-Drinkin'” didn’t reach the top spot until February 11, 1967, overtaking Jack Greene’s No. 1 hit from late 1966, “There Goes My Everything”. The song was the first of 16 No. 1 Country hits Lynn would have over the course of her career. The song set the standard for Lynn’s biggest success to come in the early 1970s. Thanks in part to the success of this hit, Lynn became the first female Country entertainer to win the CMA Awards’ “Female Vocalist of the Year” award in late 1967.
In 1970 “Don’t Come Home A-Drinkin” was certified by the RIAA as a gold album making Loretta Lynn the first woman in country music to receive such an honor.
In 2003, “Don’t Come Home A-Drinkin'” placed at No. 47 on CMT’s 100 Greatest Songs in Country Music.
In 2024, Rolling Stone ranked the song at #38 on its 200 Greatest Country Songs of All Time ranking
Video
Lyrics
Well, you thought I’d be waitin’ up when you came home last night
You’d been out with all the boys and you ended up half tight
Liquor and love, they just don’t mix
Leave that bottle or me behind
And don’t come home a drinkin’ with lovin’ on your mind
No, don’t come home a drinkin’ with lovin’ on your mind
Just stay out there on the town and see what you can find
‘Cause if you want that kind of love, well, you don’t need none of mine
So don’t come home a drinkin’ with lovin’ on your mind
You never take me anywhere because you’re always gone
Many a night I’ve laid awake and cried here all alone
Then you come in a kissin’ on me it happens every time
So don’t come home a drinkin’ with lovin’ on your mind
No, don’t come home a drinkin’ with lovin’ on your mind
Just stay out there on the town and see what you can find
‘Cause if you want that kind of love, well, you don’t need none of mine
So don’t come home a drinkin’ with lovin’ on your mind
No, don’t come home a drinkin’ with lovin’ on your mind